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It's All Your Fault!: 12 Tips for Managing People Who Blame Others for Everything

William A Eddy, Bill Eddy

Unhooked Books, 21 February 2012

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If you haven’t been someone’s Target of Blame, you will be soon. According to author Bill Eddy, blaming others is increasing in societies around the globe and there’s a pattern in this blaming behavior, driven by people with certain personalities – perhaps 15% of our society. Though it’s a growing problem he also believes it is a predictable one, and a problem that can be managed in most cases with more understanding – and doing the opposite of what you feel like doing!

Contents include:

  • Don’t take their personal attacks
  • Don’t give them negative feedback
  • Don’t bend boundaries with borderlines
  • Don’t diss the Narcissists
  • Don’t get hooked by Histrionics
  • Don’t get conned by Antisocials
  • Don’t be a Negative Advocate
  • Handling High-Conflict personalities
  • Connect using your EAR
  • Analyze your realistic options
  • Respond quickly to Misinformation
  • Set Limits on Misbehaviour
  • Choose your battles

Source: Google Books